In this silence time of her grieving, there is really nothing one can do to really ‘ease’ the pain.
As the pain comes from the heart and mind, not merely or something that others could see. I can’t help but keep imagining things like….even little-little things that perhaps every couple has taken for granted all the years they lived together….
When we are so used to having each other by our sides, we will not realize it. But imagine,
When the little girl asks “where is Papa”…
When you see his shirts or any belongings at all in the house…
When special occasion or festive season is here…
There really are lots of things that people would like to know… as put by one of the Autoworld forum member… “Was he speeding? Was he in a rush to meet a client?..or pick up his son from school? NO one knows except God….”
And to add on to this list… others might have asked… is the car condition ok, did the brake give way? Was he trying to avoid hitting another vehicle? How could he not see that stupid big crane? Why and/or was he driving in emergency lane?
While I agree that these are not important anymore as what’s gone is gone, let’s put our effort on those who has to suffer from what’s gone, they are the real victim of circumstances!, but this would mean a puzzle still un-solved, and curiosity in everyone’s mind.
Its all fated….. I am just thinking, is this all already ‘fixed’ by God? I mean, if he’s not driving at that time, and perhaps just sitting in the office or having his lunch, will he still die at that time of that day? It sounds silly.. but is fate really like that?
Why was it ‘fixed’ that way? No one knows whether it is for good or for bad, we can only see how the future prevails for the wife and 3 young kids. Perhaps its God arrangement for a better future, let’s look at the bright side. As we shall not doubt God’s decision.
Be strong….
As the pain comes from the heart and mind, not merely or something that others could see. I can’t help but keep imagining things like….even little-little things that perhaps every couple has taken for granted all the years they lived together….
When we are so used to having each other by our sides, we will not realize it. But imagine,
When the little girl asks “where is Papa”…
When you see his shirts or any belongings at all in the house…
When special occasion or festive season is here…
There really are lots of things that people would like to know… as put by one of the Autoworld forum member… “Was he speeding? Was he in a rush to meet a client?..or pick up his son from school? NO one knows except God….”
And to add on to this list… others might have asked… is the car condition ok, did the brake give way? Was he trying to avoid hitting another vehicle? How could he not see that stupid big crane? Why and/or was he driving in emergency lane?
While I agree that these are not important anymore as what’s gone is gone, let’s put our effort on those who has to suffer from what’s gone, they are the real victim of circumstances!, but this would mean a puzzle still un-solved, and curiosity in everyone’s mind.
Its all fated….. I am just thinking, is this all already ‘fixed’ by God? I mean, if he’s not driving at that time, and perhaps just sitting in the office or having his lunch, will he still die at that time of that day? It sounds silly.. but is fate really like that?
Why was it ‘fixed’ that way? No one knows whether it is for good or for bad, we can only see how the future prevails for the wife and 3 young kids. Perhaps its God arrangement for a better future, let’s look at the bright side. As we shall not doubt God’s decision.
Be strong….
